Hey, my pleasure

Lot of blood, sweat and tears are in this website and I founded it too when I was hurting, struggling to live daily. Now, I have been blessed by this great community and can make a decent living helping people online while I work from home. Maybe you can think of an idea to work online for yourself?
Actually, renting now with damaged credit is easier than it has ever been. Most property managers now understand this and sometimes a letter of explanation will do the trick or rent from a private party. Many real estate brokers own homes and would love to rent to a good guy with a family that is just down on his luck.
Paying all your bills will help, yes!!!
Your unemployment looks like it will do the job to feed your family and pay a few bills, but not everything. This will be tight in every way and no way you can get a loan mod with that.
If it was me, I would eat, pay my bills on 6-8 week cycles. (basically you are always a bit late, but never in collections, its a fine balance you will get used to) and look HARD for work. I think if you took your energy and just spent 8 hours a day, 5 days a week marketing yourself and maybe learn some new skills, you will find work. Even in this economy.