
Originally Posted by
melanieg
Corinna, also wanted to say....You are not your credit score. Like you, I waited too long to deal with the reality that I had more going out than coming in (I also used credit cards to pay for groceries, utilities, etc. until it caught up to me). I admit it was hard to miss that first mortgage payment, but just hard the first month :-) I also knew that had I not missed my mortgage payment, I was just prolonging the agony. I had to do something, and there was no point giving the mortgage company money when I knew it could not go on much longer. Especially on a house that was worth 50K less than my mortgages.