Hi Dan,
Thanks for reply.
Listed for sale for 90 days? Or behind in payments for 90 days? Or both?
It seems so a$$-backward to stop paying mortgage although it doesn't really help in reducing the principle since its an interest only- would really just be throwing it away. Do I call the bank now before its listed and tell them that while we can pay the mortgage right now in three months we might not and that I want to do a short sale? Or list the house as a short sale, get behind in the mortgage and then call? I am just terrified of starting this whole process. I feel like we are not as bad off as some people and that if I call the bank right now they'll laugh at us and think we're trying to get away with something.