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Dan Bailey · 03-25-2009, 06:24 AM

Cassie...

The folks at NACA are under alot of pressure too. If they sound gruff, you need to remember how much work is in front of them and on their table..Im sure they get alot of people who DONT send in the right papers...theres alot of stress .

The Hope bubble:
It's sometimes easy to build up hopes because of other peoples posts on here. Tending to forget that each individuals circumstance is different...the "I heard that..." comments, etc...can make us forget that this is a long, tough process.... Hope is a good thing to have, but it needs to be tempered with patience and a dose of low expectations.

A place I go to says"Keep your hope high, and your expectations low"...

This is not said to damper anybodys hopes, etc....it is said so that -when these days happen- it doesnt bring you down to a deep place.

Remember...sometimes when folks post here and get your hopes high because of something they heard or got.....they are sometimes so jubulant they "embelish" results or may have gotten to happy too soon also.

Your process is your process....it cannot be based on someone elses.

Keep your hope....

03-25-2009, 06:24 AM	#62 (permalink)
Dan Bailey Loan Safe Moderator & Homeowner Guide Join Date: May 2008 Location: Wilmington NC Posts: 1,407 Nominated 0 Times in 0 Posts TOTW/F/M Award(s): 0	Re: Failure is not an option for us.... Cassie... The folks at NACA are under alot of pressure too. If they sound gruff, you need to remember how much work is in front of them and on their table..Im sure they get alot of people who DONT send in the right papers...theres alot of stress . The Hope bubble: It's sometimes easy to build up hopes because of other peoples posts on here. Tending to forget that each individuals circumstance is different...the "I heard that..." comments, etc...can make us forget that this is a long, tough process.... Hope is a good thing to have, but it needs to be tempered with patience and a dose of low expectations. A place I go to says"Keep your hope high, and your expectations low"... This is not said to damper anybodys hopes, etc....it is said so that -when these days happen- it doesnt bring you down to a deep place. Remember...sometimes when folks post here and get your hopes high because of something they heard or got.....they are sometimes so jubulant they "embelish" results or may have gotten to happy too soon also. Your process is your process....it cannot be based on someone elses. Keep your hope.... __________________ Loansafe saved my home!! I may be alot of things, but I do know the difference between reply and forward.