[darlyj]

Thanks Moe. We're just sick (literally at several points) of the stress from playing their games and refuse to do so anymore. It's just not worth it anymore, financially or mentally. That in and of itself is beyond liberating. The only thing that really is of any concern to us has to do with dragging the kids through this and making sure that we can find a safe place in a timely fashion. At the same time we know that we are far from the only family in this position and many have done just fine after going through what we are right now.