Oh Megfire my lender left a very sour taste in my mouth
I am really glad you found this site. Every issue you mentioned please believe your not alone on how it has affected all of us at one time or another or in fact still is. Being able to make friends here that allowed me to pour my heart out on how much this has hurt my family kept me from totally losing it............or I already have
There are many wonderful supportive people here to help see you through this difficult long term stressful road we are all taking. Truth be told whatever choices we make we feel is best for our circumstances getting through it is hard. You will gain strength and comfort for those dark days because I honestly don't believe one person here signed up for this when they got the keys to their new homes. Anyway your very welcome. Always remember your not alone
You just made another friend, Catherine